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  • Reasons to Visit #12 – I’ll Take Your Breath Away

    Whether it be with my killer looks, my killer heels, my killer ass or my killer cleavage to name a few of my Deelights; and whether it be in the literal or metaphorical sense, you are guaranteed to leave the House of Deelight feeling fuzzy and lightheaded.

    You can visit for a private session, you can serve me on webcam via Skype, you can call me for phone domination or you can order a custom fetish video.  Distance is not an excuse for inability to serve me. 

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  • Reasons to Visit #9 – To Feel Alive

    A session with Mistress makes my senses jingle and makes me feel so alive!

    You are going to feel sensations that you never even imagined. You will feel alive inside and out.  Every touch, every word, every infliction of suffering or humiliation is going to awaken you and leave you desperate for more.

    You can visit for a private session, you can serve me on webcam via Skype, you can call me for phone domination or you can order a custom fetish video.  Distance is not an excuse for inability to serve me.

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  • Slave Speedy

    Slave Speedy, owned by Mistress R’eal and very kindly lent to me by her because of his pathetic desperation while she was in recovery from her operation, came to visit me so I decided to give him a bit of something he wasn’t used to.  I used him a rope bunny, firstly practising my new favourite party piece, the rope harness and then I decided to torture him with a good hour of edging and orgasm denial.  The silly fool, in his rock hard state, decided he would take his punishment before having the chance to orgasm.  Well, what a silly decision that was, as his paddling, cropping and single tail bull whipping certainly made his tiny little cock (laced with viagra) shrivel back to the size it normally is and he only had half an orgasm!  hahaha! Serves you right, Speedy!

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  • Cocooned Human Ashtray Movie Clip

    A Cocooned slave is wrapped from neck to toe in cling film/plastic wrap and turned into a human ashtray with full instruction, right down to eating the cigarette stub.

    This slave serves no other purpose than to be used as an ashtray, a fancy, live piece of furniture, cocooned and unable to move anything other than his mouth so that I can sit back, relax and smoke my morning cigarette whilst instructing the rest of you wannabe slaves, what your purpose in life should really be about.  You can watch a free preview below.

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    Clip now available to purchase on my clip sites:

  • Luxury Dining

    The other day I posted a video to youtube, a video to hypnotise you little financial slaves into spoiling me.  The item at the top of my wishlist was a luxury dining table and chairs; a set that will look fabulous in the hall of the House of Deelight.  Today, slave Michael allowed himself to submit to my hypnotic suggestions and thus purchased my new set…


    He is now at the top of my financial slavery list.  He stands above the rest of you, the fakes, the wannabes.

    you want to impress me?

    Next on my list is a latex dress from http://www.ladylucie.com/polkamini.html

    I want this dress in a size 8, black with pink trim.  I don’t think she offers gift vouchers, so please contact me if you wish to contribute.

  • Sissy Slut Krystal

    On her second visit to Deelight’s Slut School, newbie sissy, Krystal underwent full feminisation.  Before her visit she was instructed to purchase some clothing of my choice.  I chose a black lacy basque with stockings and matching panties, and a wig.  Brownie points were lost as the wig didn’t arrive in time, however I think my contribution to that cause, a lolita girly wig, was priceless! Perfectly suited to my slut.  After some spanking, teasing and a bit of anal play, I took my slut upstairs to the medical room.  All students at slut school must undergo vigorous medical examinations, and I wanted to check her reactions.  A slow slut, is a useless slut!  I used the E-stim on her man clitty and nipples, and thoroughly enjoyed watching Krystal squeal helplessly within her tight restraints as I upped the power supply!

    Later we were joined by TV Kat, who this time was addressed as Mistress Kat, much to that pink porn stars pleasure.  (I did have to bring her down a peg or two and remind her who was in charge!) .  A little group play ensued, with Krystal getting her second lesson in how to suck a real cock, and how to take it up the arse like a good little bitch – and boy did she take it well!

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    Firstly before taking me to lunch, I wanted her to try on her new sexy lace black panties…..

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    A tied cock for one way blood flow, finished with a nice little bow for presentation!

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    After lunch it was home for the full dressing up…

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    A little shock therapy on the gyni chair, with the e-stim,  purely for my amusement and for no other reason LOL!

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    Oh look, it’s Minnie Mouse!

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    We have a visitor; Slut TV (Mistress) Kat comes along to assist.


    To book your place at Deelight’s School for Sluts, click here to complete the online booking application form.

  • Slave Arthur – Collared

    Unfortunately, due to my recent ill health, I haven’t had the chance to write about slave cagey’s latest visit, a few weeks back.  But as his next visit draws closer, I really must share our progress with you.  For those of you who are new to my blog, slave Arthur is my long term chastity slave.  By long term, I mean, long term!  He has been serving me for much of this year, though he did have a little break from visiting me, he has remained in chastity the entire time.  Click here for more posts about Arthur’s commitment.

    Before his last visit, Arthur was instructed to chose a suitable slave collar and to have a tag engraved, marking my ownership.  Arthur, used his initiative and came back to me with two tags!  I also set him another task; to write about the reasons why and his feelings about, chastity, to share with the rest of you.  Since slave cagey first entered the House of Deelight, my blog posts about his journey have captivated quite a few men, curious about chastity, so what better way to feed that curiosity, than to share with you, what it is like for a REAL chastity slave.  I am not saying that those of you, who consider being in chastity, are not real; I am merely pointing out that Arthur, really is locked with no escape or sexual release until I decide to allow it.  It might be worth you all noting, that this power pleases me, greatly.

    Here are the pictures of Arthur’s new collar and tags… followed by his own thoughts on his choices.




    Slave Arthur’s Perspective:

    Why Chastity?

    I have committed to remaining under Miss Deelight’s Chastity Control for 32 weeks from June 21st  2013.

    Well, to be more precise, for a minimum of 32 weeks.

    Chastity in this case actually means without orgasms, for Miss Deelight will never allow actual sex to take place between us.

    I am locked into a stainless steel, erection preventing device at all times when we are apart, with Miss Deelight having both keys.

    By my calculations, 32 weeks, takes us to 31st  January 2014. So that’s no cumming for me until at least February next year.Miss Deelight occasionally reminds me that this is a minimum period, and I am fully expecting her to extend that, as she sees fit from time to time.

    Miss Deelight is an extremely attractive woman, so why should I not, like most of her clients probably do after a session, go home and have a really good wank?

    So what’s in it for me? Why chastity and frustration? Why not take a bit of a caning and go home and wank?

    Good questions. I can’t actually explain why I feel like this, but I do.

    I can trace my desire to be mistreated by girls back to about when I was 6 or 7, when I used to imagine being captured and made to do humiliating things. – Maybe I was a witchfinder in an earlier life.

    Even then I fantasised about such things as

    • Being made to sand in deep mud up to my thighs, while they inspected my genitals.
    • Being made to play ‘girly games. And wait on them
    • Being tied up and taunted.
    • Having them wash my mouth out with soap and water

    Well I was  only 6 or 7.

    The feelings subsided, and returned, subsided and returned over the years, but never really went away.

    I remember with some excitement even now back to the early years of  my relationship, as we got closer and closer to ‘doing it’, and one girl in particular, who allowed my penis to actually touch her vagina, and saying “I think that’s as far as we go”. – I suggested that she might provide some hand relief, and got the reply “I don’t do that”.

    So maybe these days, I’m trying to relive how I felt then—Who knows.

    One day I woke up and thought; “Life isn’t a rehearsal. I’ll try some of the things I’ve been fantasising about” Checked out a few possibilities, took the plunge and visited my first dominatrix.

    For me it’s really about not having control of my sexual outlet. That the woman in control is in control because that’s what she likes. The idea of my not being able even to have an erection she doesn’t authorise pleases her, as does the idea of her taking me to new heights of frustration.

    When Miss Deelight said that she was going to make my chastity period 32 weeks, my heart skipped a beat, and then she added “Minimum”.

    This is a lot longer than I’ve ever been without release, and the idea is so far very exciting. – So far.

    I don’t like much in the way of physical pain, but accept it because that’s what Miss Deelight wants.

    But the idea of being made to want relief, and not being able to get any, at the hands of an attractive woman really excites me.

    My fantasies have grown up over the years. –  But are mainly around the same overall arena.

    Attractive woman who enjoys making me want what I can’t have, enjoys putting  me to work and making me suffer. – If I don’t do the things I definitely won’t get any relief, if I do, then I still might not.

    Some examples:

    Being locked by the balls to an ironing board while ironing (or the sink while hand washing some of her clothes).  The woman reaches round from behind me and fondles my nipples (which seem to be hard wired to an attempted erection), and taunts me about being caged, under her complete control, and not able to wank., and how much having my cock under her control has improved me in all respects.

    Being teased to the brink of an orgasm and the stimulation stopped at the last minute (many times)

    Being required to perform oral sex on her while I remain caged and frustrated – one of my absolute favourites that one.

    Being required to drink her urine.

    She keeps me caged and waiting so long that all the sperm storage in my body is completely full, and I begin to leak spunk more or less continually. – This is aided by regular immersion of my caged cock in icy cold water for ten minutes at a time She gloats over how she’s put an end to my wanking, but at the same time starts calling me wanker.

    When cumming is finally allowed, it being on her terms such as

    A ‘quickie’. The instant the cage comes of she (or perhaps she makes me do it), masturbates my penis hard and extremely fast. As soon as the first squirt is inevitable, she stops the stimulation and puts the cage back on.  – Under this situation, the cum will start before the penis becomes erect – resulting in the cage being back on before the orgasm finishes; There are two other rules here

    1)      If I haven’t cum in a minute stimulation stops  and the cage goes back on.

    2)      If I become fully erect stimulation stops

    A ‘slowie’: she brings me to an erection and masturbates me at a ‘normal’ speed for a few seconds. Then for the next few lets my penis go and fondles my nipples. This is repeated until some cum emerges from my penis: – Which will result in a very ruined orgasm as it will probably be during the nipple fondling time.

    An extended: Very simple this one, she continues the masturbation right through and long after the orgasm, demanding “ More. I want more”.

    Having kept me  without relief for a very long time, she spends a while teasing me with the cage on, and then offers me a proposition. – she will allow me to bring her to an orgasm with my tongue, but it will cost me an extra 3 months in the cage. ( and I know which option I will take!)

    I don’t know why I want this, and can’t think of a single reason why it should be pleasurable, but it is.

    I suppose it’s a combination of having control over what makes me a man being taken over by this woman, and in a way, I’m more or less constantly engaging in foreplay.

    The longer it goes on, the more I seem to want it to go on. – But it has now ‘only’ been seven weeks. – Not even a quarter of the way through my minimum abstention period’

    It’s 3:50 in the morning, and my frustrated cock has just woken me up as it expanded to fill and try to break through the cage: — and I’m actually enjoying it.

    And is that all really harder to  understand than the man who actually want to receive corporal punishment? – Well it’s not to me, because I really don’t like a caning at all.

  • Mistress is Back!

    Thank you to all my devoted slaves and subbies who sent me their get well wishes.  I am deelighted to say that I am back in good health, back on form and raring to go.  I had a good day back on webcam, with some of my favourite playthings popping by to play and  chat and have had extra fun on the phones too.  Now that my health is back on form I will be making myself available (unless I am in a session) most weekdays  on webcam between 11am-2:00pm and on phone chat between 8pm-10pm.

    So, what are you waiting for?  Get back here and on your knees where you belong!



  • Slave Stoffi Week in Chastity

    A few weeks ago I welcomed a new onboard the kinky train; Slave Stoffi from Germany.  That’s right Slaves, Mistress has servants everywhere, not just here in the UK.  Slave Stoffi first introduced himself to me with a Skype session, during which he showed me his chastity device.  I felt that it was only right for my new slave to really learn what being owned and locked meant, so I set him a task to remain locked into his device for an entire week.  A week in chastity is quite a tough challenge for a first timer, and even more so for someone as young as he, at the age of 25.  I instructed Slave Stoffi, to report to me daily, via email, to describe to me his experience of first time, chastity.   Here, I share his diary.  (Please note that I have not altered his words, these are exactly as he has written them, bear in mind that English is not his first language).

    First Night:

    Hello Miss Deelight,

    Attached you’ll find a small clip because my camaraderie for photo isn’t working.

    I’m locked in chastity again.

    Thanks for the fabulous session;)

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    Day 1:

    My résumé after my almost first day in chastity is, it feels really strange to be locked! Can’t even go jogging or driving bike! But I’ll keep locked as said!

    Day 2:

    My résumé after my second day in chastity.

    Today I tried to jogging, feels really strange to have a device between the legs and it makes stupid sounds while I walk;) But feel an bit better with the device as yesterday;) I took it not off today for shower but I must doit tomorrow after my jogging otherwise is it unhygienic.

    Day 3:

    Today was my 3.day locked in chastity.

    I must say it feels really annoyed not be able to wank, but I take the challenge;) Today I had also an football match but I didn’t played because its an bit hard with the device between the legs;) Resume after my 3.day in chastity is it feels really strange;)

    Day 4:

    Today we had an reallllly hot summer day and it was wearing a short but it was really hard to secure the spot so now one could see I’m wearing a chastity —> was really hard but now one have seen it:p I’ve read yesterday again your blog post about the “wanker hospital” and a double dome session with Mistress Real, it had hurt really much if my dick get hard but can’t really:( So I was forced to go sleep with thinking off you and blue balls:(

    This was my 4. Day just 3 left;)

    Day 5:

    Today was my 5. Day in chastity.

    I can’t describe the feeling to get an hard dick while its locked in chastity, it’s just pain.

    Today was again an really nice summer day with around 33 degrees:) the right weather to go on the sea;) I had to think about what I shall wear so now one sees that I’m wearing an chastity! I found an solution, just not go into the water:(

    Now I’m laying at home in the sun with an nice drink;)

    Day 6:

    Today at my 6. Day locked in chastity I feel really naughty;) I can’t wait to get unlocked;) how are you?

    I was today inhospital after I got an big allergic shockbut now I’m home againand I feel little better, but I’ve no hairs left on my head the have cut everything down to 1 mm:( Can’t wait to get unlocked because now it’s feels also I must clean my dick, 7 days without cleaning is ugly!!!

    Day 7:

    Now today was my last day in chastityand If you want see me unlock me, tell me a time you want, I can after 9:30-9:45pm!

    Would you write a blog post about my week in chastity? If, just ask if you need anything more from me;)

    My last day was really easy, just had any meetings at work but now I’m at home and just wait to unlock me so I can jump maybe on cam but definitely under the shower;)

    Thank you Miss Deelight for the experience to be locked;)


    I’m really proud about me;)

    My first wank was so intense that I could believe it;) I came two times, uhh;) Thank you again for this experience!!!


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    Being locked in Chastity isn’t as easy as it looks, is it slave?